If you want to start a new habit, it means that you have a new challenge. If you need a supporter for this challenge, your main supporter might be a book. And if this might be a book, this will probably be this book: Atomic Habits, by James Clear.
In this blog post, you will
find more than the average highlights that I share because this book is full of
great insights. Here are just some of these awesome quotes which will make you
take action.
Tiny Changes, Remarkable
Results
No matter your goals,
Atomic Habits offers a proven framework for improving—every day. James Clear,
one of the world's leading experts on habit formation, reveals practical
strategies that will teach you exactly how to form good habits, break bad ones,
and master the tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results.
If you're having trouble changing your habits, the problem isn't you. The problem is your system. Bad habits repeat themselves again and again not because you don't want to change, but because you have the wrong system for change. You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems. Here, you'll get a proven system that can take you to new heights.
Clear is known for his ability to distill complex topics into simple behaviors that can be easily applied to daily life and work. Here, he draws on the most proven ideas from biology, psychology, and neuroscience to create...
Introduction: My Story
A habit is a routine or
behavior that is performed regularly—and, in many cases, automatically.
We all face challenges in
life. This injury was one of mine, and the experience taught me a critical
lesson: changes that seem small and unimportant at first will compound into
remarkable results if you’re willing to stick with them for years. We all deal
with setbacks but in the long run, the quality of our lives often depends on
the quality of our habits. With the same habits, you’ll end up with the same
results. But with better habits, anything is possible.
Maybe there are people who
can achieve incredible success overnight. I don’t know any of them.
The entrepreneur and
investor Naval Ravikant has said, “To write a great book, you must first become
the book.”
I had to rely on small
habits to rebound from my injury, to get stronger in the gym, to perform at a
high level on the field, to become a writer, to build a successful business,
and simply to develop into a responsible adult.
1: The Surprising Power of
Atomic Habits
The aggregation of marginal
gains: Brailsford said, “The whole principle came from the idea that if you
broke down everything you could think of that goes into riding a bike, and then
improve it by 1 percent, you will get a significant increase when you put them
all together.”
Too often, we convince
ourselves that massive success requires massive action. Whether it is losing
weight, building a business, writing a book, winning a championship, or
achieving any other goal, we put pressure on ourselves to make some
earth-shattering improvement that everyone will talk about.
Meanwhile, improving by 1
percent isn’t particularly notable—sometimes it isn’t even noticeable—but it
can be far more meaningful, especially in the long run. The difference a tiny
improvement can make over time is astounding. Here’s how the math works out: if
you can get 1 percent better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven
times better by the time you’re done.
Habits are the compound
interest of self-improvement.
Breakthrough moments are often the result of many previous actions, which build up the potential required to unleash a major change.
Complaining about not
achieving success despite working hard is like complaining about an ice cube
not melting when you heated it from twenty-five to thirty-one degrees. Your
work was not wasted; it is just being stored. All the action happens at
thirty-two degrees.
When you finally break
through the Plateau of Latent Potential, people will call it an overnight
success.
Mastery requires patience.
The San Antonio Spurs, one of the most successful teams in NBA history, have a
quote from social reformer Jacob Riis hanging in their locker room: “When
nothing seems to help, I go and look at a stonecutter hammering away at his
rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at
the hundred and first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not that
last blow that did it—but all that had gone before.”
If you want better results,
then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead.
Problem #1: Winners and
losers have the same goals.
The goal had always been
there. It was only when they implemented a system of continuous small
improvements that they achieved a different outcome.
Problem #2: Achieving a
goal is only a momentary change.
Achieving a goal only
changes your life for the moment.
What we really need to
change are the systems that cause those results. When you solve problems at the
results level, you only solve them temporarily. In order to improve for good,
you need to solve problems at the systems level. Fix the inputs and the outputs
will fix themselves.
Problem #3: Goals restrict
your happiness.
Goals create an “either-or”
conflict: either you achieve your goal and are successful or you fail and you
are a disappointment. You mentally box yourself into a narrow version of
happiness. This is misguided. It is unlikely that your actual path through life
will match the exact journey you had in mind when you set out. It makes no
sense to restrict your satisfaction to one scenario when there are many paths
to success.
When you fall in love with
the process rather than the product, you don’t have to wait to give yourself
permission to be happy.
Problem #4: Goals are at
odds with long-term progress.
The purpose of setting
goals is to win the game. The purpose of building systems is to continue
playing the game. True long-term thinking is goal-less thinking. It’s not about
any single accomplishment. It is about the cycle of endless refinement and
continuous improvement. Ultimately, it is your commitment to the process that
will determine your progress.
An atomic habit is a little
habit that is part of a larger system. Just as atoms are the building blocks of
molecules, atomic habits are the building blocks of remarkable results.
If you want better results,
then forget about setting goals. Focus on your system instead.
2: How Your Habits Shape
Your Identity (and Vice Versa)
Many people begin the
process of changing their habits by focusing on what they want to achieve. This
leads us to outcome-based habits. The alternative is to build identity-based
habits. With this approach, we start by focusing on who we wish to become.
The ultimate form of
intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. It’s one
thing to say I’m the type of person who wants this. It’s something very
different to say I’m the type of person who is this.
Improvements are only
temporary until they become part of who you are.
The goal is not to read a
book, the goal is to become a reader.
The goal is not to run a
marathon, the goal is to become a runner.
The goal is not to learn an
instrument, the goal is to become a musician.
Your identity emerges out
of your habits. You are not born with preset beliefs. Every belief, including
those about yourself, is learned and conditioned through experience.
The most practical way to
change who you are is to change what you do.
Ask yourself, “Who is the
type of person that could get the outcome I want?”
The focus should always be
on becoming that type of person, not getting a particular outcome.
Ultimately, your habits
matter because they help you become the type of person you wish to be. They are
the channel through which you develop your deepest beliefs about yourself.
Quite literally, you become your habits.
3: How to Build Better
Habits in 4 Simple Steps
A habit is a behavior that
has been repeated enough times to become automatic. The process of habit
formation begins with trial and error.
Habits do not restrict
freedom. They create it. In fact, the people who don’t have their habits
handled are often the ones with the least amount of freedom.
Without good financial habits,
you will always be struggling for the next dollar.
The process of building a
habit can be divided into four simple steps: cue, craving, response, and
reward.
First, there is the cue.
The cue triggers your brain to initiate a behavior. It is a bit of information
that predicts a reward.
Your mind is continuously
analyzing your internal and external environment for hints of where rewards are
located. Because the cue is the first indication that we’re close to a reward,
it naturally leads to a craving.
Cravings are the second
step, and they are the motivational force behind every habit. Without some
level of motivation or desire—without craving a change—we have no reason to
act.
The third step is the
response. The response is the actual habit you perform, which can take the form
of a thought or an action.
If a particular action
requires more physical or mental effort than you are willing to expend, then
you won’t do it. Your response also depends on your ability. It sounds simple,
but a habit can occur only if you are capable of doing it.
Finally, the response
delivers a reward. Rewards are the end goal of every habit. The cue is about
noticing the reward. The craving is about wanting the reward. The response is
about obtaining the reward. We chase rewards because they serve two purposes:
(1) they satisfy us and (2) they teach us.
How to Create a Good Habit
The 1st law (Cue): Make it
obvious.
The 2nd law (Craving): Make
it attractive.
The 3rd law (Response):
Make it easy.
The 4th law (Reward): Make
it satisfying.
How to Break a Bad Habit
Inversion of the 1st law
(Cue): Make it invisible.
Inversion of the 2nd law
(Craving): Make it unattractive.
Inversion of the 3rd law
(Response): Make it difficult.
Inversion of the 4th law
(Reward): Make it unsatisfying.
The ultimate purpose of
habits is to solve the problems of life with as little energy and effort as
possible.
The Man Who Didn’t Look
Right
If a habit remains
mindless, you can’t expect to improve it. As the psychologist Carl Jung said,
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you
will call it fate.
The Best Way to Start a New
Habit
The punch line is clear:
people who make a specific plan for when and where they will perform a new
habit are more likely to follow through. Too many people try to change their
habits without these basic details figured out. We tell ourselves, “I’m going
to eat healthier” or “I’m going to write more,” but we never say when and where
these habits are going to happen.
The simple way to apply
this strategy to your habits is to fill out this sentence:
I will [BEHAVIOR] at [TIME]
in [LOCATION].
If we have hope, we have a
reason to take action.
When it comes to building
new habits, you can use the connectedness of behavior to your advantage. One of
the best ways to build a new habit is to identify a current habit you already
do each day and then stack your new behavior on top. This is called habit
stacking.
Habit stacking is a special
form of an implementation intention.
The specificity is
important. The more tightly bound your new habit is to a specific cue, the
better the odds are that you will notice when the time comes to act.
The 1st Law of Behavior
Change is to make it obvious. Strategies like implementation intentions and
habit stacking are among the most practical ways to create obvious cues for
your habits and design a clear plan for when and where to take action.
Motivation Is Overrated;
Environment Often Matters More
In 1936, psychologist Kurt
Lewin wrote a simple equation that makes a powerful statement: Behavior is a
function of the Person in their Environment, or B = f (P,E).
If you want to make a habit
a big part of your life, make the cue a big part of your environment.
A stable environment where
everything has a place and a purpose is an environment where habits can easily
form.
How to Make a Habit
Irresistible
The modern food industry,
and the overeating habits it has spawned, is just one example of the 2nd Law of
Behavior Change: Make it attractive. The more attractive an opportunity is, the
more likely it is to become habit-forming.
Temptation bundling is one
way to make your habits more attractive. The strategy is to pair an action you
want to do with an action you need to do.
The Role of Family and
Friends in Shaping Your Habits
A genius is not born, but
is educated and trained.
The lone wolf dies, but the
pack survives.
As a general rule, the
closer we are to someone, the more likely we are to imitate some of their
habits.
One of the most effective
things you can do to build better habits is to join a culture where your
desired behavior is the normal behavior. New habits seem achievable when you
see others doing them every day. If you are surrounded by fit people, you’re
more likely to consider working out to be a common habit. If you’re surrounded
by jazz lovers, you’re more likely to believe it’s reasonable to play jazz
every day.
Surround yourself with
people who have the habits you want to have yourself. You’ll rise together.
We care so much about the
habits of highly effective people. We try to copy the behavior of successful
people because we desire success ourselves. Many of our daily habits are
imitations of people we admire. You replicate the marketing strategies of the
most successful firms in your industry. You make a recipe from your favorite
baker. You borrow the storytelling strategies of your favorite writer. You
mimic the communication style of your boss. We imitate people we envy.
Walk Slowly, but Never
Backward
If you want to master a
habit, the key is to start with repetition, not perfection. You don’t need to
map out every feature of a new habit. You just need to practice it. This is the
first takeaway of the 3rd Law: you just need to get your reps in.
With each repetition, cell-to-cell signaling improves and the neural connections tighten. First described by neuropsychologist Donald Hebb in 1949, this phenomenon is commonly known as Hebb’s Law: “Neurons that fire together wire together.”
To build a habit, you need
to practice it. And the most effective way to make practice happen is to adhere
to the 3rd Law of Behavior Change: make it easy.
The Law of Least Effort
Every action requires a
certain amount of energy. The more energy required, the less likely it is to
occur. (addition by subtraction)
Redesign your life so the
actions that matter most are also the actions that are easiest to do.
How to Stop Procrastinating
by Using the Two-Minute Rule
Each day is made up of many
moments, but it is really a few habitual choices that determine the path you
take. These little choices stack up, each one setting the trajectory for how
you spend the next chunk of time.
Habits are the entry point,
not the end point. They are the cab, not the gym.
The most effective way I
know to counteract this tendency is to use the Two-Minute Rule, which states,
“When you start a new habit, it should take less than two minutes to do.”
Start by mastering the
first two minutes of the smallest version of the behavior. Then, advance to an
intermediate step and repeat the process—focusing on just the first two minutes
and mastering that stage before moving on to the next level. Eventually, you’ll
end up with the habit you had originally hoped to build while still keeping
your focus where it should be: on the first two minutes of the behavior.
How to Make Good Habits
Inevitable and Bad Habits Impossible
Sometimes success is less
about making good habits easy and more about making bad habits hard. This is an
inversion of the 3rd Law of Behavior Change: make it difficult. If you find
yourself continually struggling to follow through on your plans, then you can
take a page from Victor Hugo and make your bad habits more difficult by
creating what psychologists call a commitment device.
Alfred North Whitehead
wrote, “Civilization advances by extending the number of operations we can
perform without thinking about them.”
The Cardinal Rule of Behavior Change
We are more likely to
repeat a behavior when the experience is satisfying. This is entirely logical.
Feelings of pleasure—even minor ones like washing your hands with soap that
smells nice and lathers well—are signals that tell the brain: “This feels good.
Do this again, next time.” Pleasure teaches your brain that a behavior is worth
remembering and repeating.
What is rewarded is
repeated. What is punished is avoided. You learn what to do in the future based
on what you were rewarded for doing (or punished for doing) in the past.
Positive emotions cultivate habits. Negative emotions destroy them.
You value the present more
than the future.
A reward that is certain
right now is typically worth more than one that is merely possible in the
future.
The road less traveled is
the road of delayed gratification. If you’re willing to wait for the rewards,
you’ll face less competition and often get a bigger payoff. As the saying goes,
the last mile is always the least crowded.
It is worth noting that it
is important to select short-term rewards that reinforce your identity rather
than ones that conflict with it.
The first three laws of
behavior change—make it obvious, make it attractive, and make it easy—increase
the odds that a behavior will be performed this time. The fourth law of
behavior change—make it satisfying — increases the odds that a behavior will be
repeated next.
How to Stick with Good
Habits Every Day
Making progress is
satisfying, and visual measures—like moving paper clips or hairpins or
marbles—provide clear evidence of your progress. As a result, they reinforce
your behavior and add a little bit of immediate satisfaction to any activity.
Jerry Seinfeld reportedly
uses a habit tracker to stick with his streak of writing jokes. In the
documentary Comedian, he explains that his goal is simply to “never break the
chain” of writing jokes every day.
The first mistake is never
the one that ruins you. It is the spiral of repeated mistakes that follows.
Missing once is an accident. Missing twice is the start of a new habit.
How an Accountability
Partner Can Change Everything
Pain is an effective
teacher. If a failure is painful, it gets fixed. If a failure is relatively
painless, it gets ignored. The more immediate and more costly a mistake is, the
faster you will learn from it.
A habit contract is a
verbal or written agreement in which you state your commitment to a particular
habit and the punishment that will occur if you don’t follow through. Then you
find one or two people to act as your accountability partners and sign off on
the contract with you.
Knowing that someone else
is watching you can be a powerful motivator.
The Truth About Talent
(When Genes Matter and When They Don’t)
Scott Adams, the cartoonist
behind Dilbert, says, “Everyone has at least a few areas in which they could be
in the top 25% with some effort. In my case, I can draw better than most
people, but I’m hardly an artist. And I’m not any funnier than the average
standup comedian who never makes it big, but I’m funnier than most people. The
magic is that few people can draw well and write jokes. It’s the combination of
the two that makes what I do so rare. And when you add in my business
background, suddenly I had a topic that few cartoonists could hope to
understand without living it.”
When you can’t win by being
better, you can win by being different. By combining your skills, you reduce
the level of competition, which makes it easier to stand out.
Boiling water will soften a
potato but harden an egg. You can’t control whether you’re a potato or an egg,
but you can decide to play a game where it’s better to be hard or soft. If you
can find a more favorable environment, you can transform the situation from one
where the odds are against you to one where they are in your favor.
Play a game that favors
your strengths. If you can’t find a game that favors you, create one.
The Goldilocks Rule: How to Stay Motivated in Life and Work
The Goldilocks Rule states
that humans experience peak motivation when working on tasks that are right on
the edge of their current abilities. Not too hard. Not too easy. Just right.
Mastery requires practice.
But the more you practice something, the more boring and routine it becomes.
Once the beginner gains have been made and we learn what to expect, our
interest starts to fade. Sometimes it happens even faster than that. All you
have to do is hit the gym a few days in a row or publish a couple of blog posts
on time and letting one day slip doesn’t feel like much. Things are going well.
It’s easy to rationalize taking a day off because you’re in a good place.
Stepping up when it’s
annoying or painful or draining to do so, that’s what makes the difference
between a professional and an amateur.
Professionals stick to the
schedule; amateurs let life get in the way. Professionals know what is
important to them and work toward it with purpose; amateurs get pulled off
course by the urgencies of life.
Professionals stick to the
schedule; amateurs let life get in the way.
The Downside of Creating
Good Habits
You can’t repeat the same
things blindly and expect to become exceptional. Habits are necessary, but not
sufficient for mastery. What you need is a combination of automatic habits and
deliberate practice.
Conclusion: The Secret to
Results That Last
Success is not a goal to
reach or a finish line to cross. It is a system to improve, an endless process
to refine.
The secret to getting
results that last is to never stop making improvements. It’s remarkable what
you can build if you just don’t stop. It’s remarkable the business you can
build if you don’t stop working. It’s remarkable the body you can build if you
don’t stop training. It’s remarkable the knowledge you can build if you don’t
stop learning. It’s remarkable the fortune you can build if you don’t stop
saving.
Little Lessons from the
Four Laws
Happiness cannot be
pursued, it must ensue. Desire is pursued. Pleasure ensues from action.
Peace occurs when you don’t
turn your observations into problems.
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